More speed; less time. The paradox of modern life and what to do about it. A guest blog from Ruth Gawler

What a paradox. Seems we are all becoming “time poor” these days; and yet we seem to have more “stuff” than ever. More speed than ever. More choices than ever. More desires than ever. What to do? Are we inexorably caught up, or is there a solution? A way out?

Collectively, in current times, we appear to be trying to do too much too quickly. We try to do many things simultaneously, so often we do those things in a shoddier, less careful way.  

Along with this, we do not have the time, make the time, to take good care of ourselves. So tension builds in our bodies, and we are more likely to develop an stress-related illness. We get more serious illnesses younger. We tend to blame ourselves or someone else for what is happening to us…. which causes emotional pain and disharmony. 

So let us look into this paradox; this dilemma, but first

    Thought for the day

      Never before 

      Has an age been so technologically equipped 

      To record and store semblances of itself 

      While at the same time 

      Being so self-consciously uncertain 

      About who it really is.

                 Kelly Grovier

Everyone wants to sell us something. 

Some give us a material solution like a new machine that can do it all for us –Thermomix or the next level App - faster and more efficient software. A car that can drive itself. Machines that can do the washing, the cleaning, the babysitting; and all we need to do is buy them and learn how to program them. 

So many ways we can buy things, so many things we can buy; and ever-increasing speed with which we can buy from countless places. And there is always more to desire…. 

So we work harder to make more money to buy what might help us feel less “under the pump’ or provide some relief. Many seek relief through alcohol and drugs; even wellness holidays. 

Of course, this can become a vicious circle, and for many, the cycle is spinning faster and faster. 

It seems like our desires and “having enough” do not actually lead us to any peace of mind; just the need for more. 

The Buddhists say we live in the desire realm. 

Capitalism’s endless creativity and complexity are the natural product of the desire realm, and it is all based on making money out of selling something. 

And the act of buying something gives us a dopamine hit which feels good. 

Until it doesn’t; until we discover the truth. 

The truth is it becomes increasingly stressful to have another machine to charge, to look after; and then to fix! Or throw out. Look at the hard rubbish collections on the sidewalks, it is mind-boggling how much waste we produce. And sadly, none of this leads to what we are really yearning for – enduring, stable, peace of mind.

Twenty years after Al Gore put out “An Inconvenient Truth” in 2006, we regularly hear that “climate change” is a lost battle. Even great people cannot seem to stop the surge of this global civilization of ours towards more people, more stuff, more speed, more waste and more rubbish. And our leaders with integrity are floundering because collectively, we are addicted to this way of life. 

This takes us back to the prophetic song of Bob Dylan’s “ Everything is Broken” to which I offer another verse:

Broken democracy, broken education,


Broken atmosphere , broken oceans,


Broken traditions, broken families,


People zoned-out from broken drugs,


Ain't no use jiving


Ain't no use joking


Everything is broken.

So is it all hopeless?

Certainly not! 

But maybe we need to rethink. 

To refocus.

Most reading this will fall into the category of “the lucky ones”. 

Most of us do have enough to eat. We do have a roof over our heads along with adequate heating and cooling. We have the opportunity to seek relief from being in nature, from medications that work, from going on good retreats and well organised holidays. 

And yet all along, deep inside, we do know these things to be temporary. And there is a yearning to know who we really are and how we might live in a way aligned to our true values.

It seems to me that now, more than ever, we need to know what is possible beyond this material world we live our days in. This current world is in such a difficult state, it may force us to recognise that if we are going to have any chance of living a satisfying life we need to look more deeply. Maybe we need to acknowledge the current trajectory is leading to greater and greater complexity, expense and waste; while forcing us to work more and speed up. 

But we are paddling as fast as we can, are we not? So maybe it is time to seek a deeper meaning than just this material world we recognise through scientific investigation. 

Plain logic and common sense tells me that the answer to having a better life, a more fulfilling life, a more enjoyable life, is to commit a significant amount of time to knowing and loving ourselves more deeply. 

And to understand what “on earth” we are doing here on this planet together. 

Yes, me and you. 

And to dedicate some special time to investigating the mystery of all this. 

The magical and infinite dimension which has power to create and transform that which is beyond the measuring instruments of science.

Bigger than us, yet part of us. 

Invisible, and yet it can be known. 

So hard to grasp intellectually. 

Possible to understand through music, poetry, art and loving relationships… to a depth that is unfathomable. Possible to understand through turning our attention inwards and meditating.

So, it seems to me to be very important that we do slow down regularly. Slow down enough to notice what really matters and to take an interest in it. 

And then when our life is over, we will not end up bewildered, and wondering “what was that all about?”

Maybe it is time to meditate.  So we come to know what we do not know.

NEXT MEDITATION RETREAT with Ruth and Ian

DEEP NATURAL PEACE

A unique opportunity to explore the implications and practical application of the Critical Brain Hypothesis, while experiencing being guided into the deep natural peace and clarity of profound meditation.

3 Day Meditation Immersion with Ian and Ruth Gawler
NOVEMBER 2026 – Friday 6th to Saturday the 8th - Yarra Junction

These days, many people have had some introduction to meditation and the power of the mind. Soon comes the realisation of the extraordinary depth and breadth of it all. And often we get a sense there is more to it …..   More to experience ..…

So while this retreat will include ample instruction, the focus will be upon direct experience; finding and immersing ourselves in the deep inner peace, the regenerative power and the clarity of our own stillness. And the balance between doing and being...

This process will be enhanced by being in the wonderful, peaceful and majestic forests of the Upper Yarra Valley, by being supported by the staff and amenities of the Gawler Foundation’s Living Centre, and guided by Ian and Ruth Gawler.

For details CLICK HERE

 

In praise of fast cars and the need for a heart transplant

What can we learn from a very fast old car?

Plenty really. I drive a Subaru WRX. Fabulous car. I was fortunate and happened to buy the 1998 model, the best looking WRX of all time. Sleek, elegant, relatively cheap, and bloody fast!

This month, my lovely old car is celebrate its 28th birthday, having just turned over 365,00Kms. Yes 365,000Kms! And it still goes very fast!

And yes, I know that these days it is about as politically correct to admit to loving driving fast as it is to being a smoker, but it is a fact. I love speed. Always have.

So this week, let’s go “Out on a Limb” once more, revisit and update a post from 2013 and discover what we can learn from a very fast old car. But first, I love being still as well, so

   Thought for the Day

Profound and tranquil, free from complexity

Uncompounded luminous clarity

Beyond the mind of conceptual ideas

This is the depth of the mind of the victorious ones.

In this there is not a thing to be removed

Nor anything that needs to be added.

It is merely the immaculate

Looking naturally at itself

            Nyoshul Khen Rinpoche

The metaphor is simple but very strong. 

As a fast car, to get to be 28 years old and to continue to look as good as you did in the early days, to continue to go as fast as you did in the early days; it all takes some work. Good care, regular servicing, a few running repairs, and maybe a facelift!

My WRX came with all the raw ingredients. 

The car looks terrific to my eye; it has beautiful lines, is compact and elegant. 

(This one looks the same but is not my car.)

In many ways it looks like a modest hatchback.

But then there is this incredible turbo-charged Boxer motor that is hooked up to everything that matches. 

The outcome? 

A racing billycart. Sure the ride is a little rough, but it moves fast, handles extraordinarily well and has been incredibly reliable. I love driving this car.

But then, the truth is the car is serviced regularly and has never had an accident, despite being driven very hard in its early days, more sedately of late. It did blow up a transmission at 30K, but Subaru recognised an in-built fault and replaced it free of charge. Being automatic, the transmission did need replacing again about 10 years ago.

The only other difficulty was when the failure of a minor part led to a major engine problem at around 200K and the bottom half of the engine needed replacing. And I did have it resprayed a year or so ago.

So the simple metaphor. Compare the car to the body. My body is 76 years old. Still goes quite well despite being short of one leg and one lung. But this body of mine, like the WRX, gets very well looked after. 

Fuel

I am quite particular about what goes into it this body of mine. The WRX would probably run on basic unleaded; splutter along at least; but it goes best on Premium and that is also better for its engine. 

My body, like the WRX, is a combustion engine. 

You put things into it, it burns them up and it goes. 

The WRX has a simple combustion engine and I am very particular about what I put in its petrol tank. 

My body is an exquisitely complex combustion engine. 

It makes logical sense to be even more attentive to what goes into my own tank.

Why not use the best? 

Why not eat the best?

Regular servicing

For me, regular meditation is like servicing. Worth doing daily. Going on retreat is a more deliberate form of servicing, as is having a regular massage, taking time out in the garden or going for a walk. Regeneration time. When I need to, which is often, I want to know that everything has been done, everything is ready, so that I can be at my best. 

Why not be at your best?

Respraying

This seems to be unknown or overlooked by many, but in my view, good food, really good food combined with regular meditation, is way more effective then a facelift. Eat consistently well and skin tone is good, wrinkles smooth out and an inner glow emerges. 

Why not look at your best?

Actually, I treat my body better than the WRX. 

I like to think I treat it like a Formula One racing car, where everything is taken seriously, but there is a lot of fun involved. 

That attitude certainly helped me to recover from a very difficult cancer. 

And these days, while I am not fixated, I am fairly diligent, and this attitude helps me to make the most of the bits that I do have, to live and enjoy life to the full, and to make the most of what it is that I have to offer to others.

And finally, along with the WRX’s milestone 28th birthday, it is currently receiving a heart transplant. After all these years and kilometres, the engine, while still going well, is blowing smoke. For me, it makes more environmental sense to restore the old engine than buy a new car with all the resources that involves. 

So soon, I will be in an old car with a new engine – that may well be faster than ever...

Love that car!

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What food goes into your tank?

RESOURCES

BOOK:  You Can Conquer Cancer – for all the answers to your food questions, and how to be confident of, and enjoy Formula One food!

Audio Book Here   

Eating Well, Being Well – MP3 outlining the dietary recommendations found in my experience to be best suited to those interested in eating well - for themselves and the family. Downloadable here  


Eating for recovery – more specific recommendations for those affected by cancer. Builds on the first food MP3, so if you are managing cancer, the two CDs are necessary. Downloadable here   

RESEARCH ARTICLE

Eating More Meat, Dairy, and Other Unhealthful Foods Leads to Worse Aging

After an average 16-year follow-up, people who consumed a “Western-type” diet, including a high intake of red and processed meats, whole dairy products, and fried foods, were more likely to die prematurely and to suffer from various chronic diseases including heart disease, stroke, cancer, and mental health disorders, compared with people who avoided such dietary patterns. Researchers analyzed data from 5,350 participants from the WhitehalI II study in London and scored dietary patterns using the Alternative Healthy Eating Index (AHEI) to assess disease risk. People with better AHEI scores had better overall health outcomes as they aged.

Akbaraly T, Sabia S, Hagger-Johnson G, et al. Does overall diet in midlife predict future aging in phenotypes? A cohort study. Am J Med. 2013; 126:411-419.

 

The Critical Brain Hypothesis – what it is and what it means for your way of thinking and meditation

Consider a stringed instrument. Tighten the strings too much – poor sound. Too loose – poor sound. There is a need to be not too tight, not too loose. Well tuned.

In meditation we often use this analogy to remind ourselves to concentrate in the same way. Not so intense we end up with a headache. Not so slack we fall asleep. Just right...

Now research in neuroscience is pointing to this same need for optimal brain function – not too much activity, not too little; and this has significance for how we think, how we contemplate and how we meditate. 

So this week we investigate the fascinating world of the critical brain hypothesis. And a gentle warning, the brain criticality hypothesis is one of the most focused and controversial topics in current neuroscience and biophysics; and also, it may be one of the more useful ones, but first

    Thought for the day

          In an age of constant movement

          Nothing is so urgent

          As sitting still

                          Pico Iyer

Notice what happens with your thoughts. 

Some seem inconsequential and come and go with no lasting memory or consequence. Effectively, we could say they just die out.

Other thoughts can be so strong they precipitate an avalanche of mental activity. When this happens we can feel overwhelmed. When this hyper-activity persists, we could easily get into over-thinking and head towards anxiety, or start to feel overloaded, burnout and drop into depression.

The critical brain hypothesis suggests the brain operates at its best in that place of balance between order and chaos, between under and over activity. In this critical state, neural networks balance on a fine line—activity does not simply fade into nothing, nor does it spiral into uncontrolled excitation. In this state of being “in tune”, our mind is in the ideal state to maximize its capacity to process, store, and transmit information. 

In this ideal state, our mind:

1. Is poised to maintain the widest range or stable states that are vital for both short-term memory and complex computation.

2. Enables different parts of the brain to communicate and synchronize.

3. Is suitably sensitive and responsive to new sensory inputs without getting bogged down by locked-in, rigid states.

Scientists suggest this critical balance is maintained by the delicate tug-of-war between excitation (neurons turning each other on) and inhibition (neurons turning each other off). Through mechanisms like synaptic plasticity and homeostasis, the brain naturally tunes its connectivity to hover right in the "sweet spot". 

Modern neuroimaging models confirm the healthy brain maintains a state of near-criticality, subtly shifting its exact tuning depending on cognitive demands like perception and rest. 

However, for full disclosure, while current evidence does support it, the critical brain hypothesis may yet prove to be wrong, or incomplete. Either way, the understanding it provides is generating an avalanche of questions and answers that tell us much more about the brain — and computing generally — than we knew before.

So what does this theory imply for our thinking, contemplation and meditation?

For optimal value, we need to think in a calm, clear manner. Obviously... Not too excited. Not too deadened. Yet amidst all the pressures of modern life, amidst all the noise and distractions, how to manage being calm and clear.

My guess is you know... Meditation of course!

And when it comes to our meditation practice, this exciting new research confirms the age old wisdom, we need to focus in a way that is not too tight, not too loose. 

Remember the injunction: 25% mindfulness, 25% awareness, 50% spaciousness. It makes good sense!

And for our contemplation, this hypothesis adds more credence to the basic principle: think actively for a while on the question you are contemplating. 

Investigate the question actively with your thinking mind. 

Then let go of all effort and allow the space for insight to dawn. Then repeat. Focus. And let go. Focus. And let go. And repeat. The balance between effort and effortlessness.

My guess is we will be hearing more and more about this Critical Brain Hypothesis. It is wonderful (at least for those with a fixation on the need for “evidence”) when modern scientific research and theory aligns with age old wisdom. And hopefully interesting for all of us... Enjoy your practice. May it ever deepen...

NEXT MEDITATION RETREAT

DEEP NATURAL PEACE

A unique opportunity to explore the implications and practical application of the Critical Brain Hypothesis, while experiencing being guided into the deep natural peace and clarity of profound meditation.

3 Day Meditation Immersion with Ian and Ruth Gawler
NOVEMBER 2026 – Friday 6th to Saturday the 8th - Yarra Junction

These days, many people have had some introduction to meditation and the power of the mind. Soon comes the realisation of the extraordinary depth and breadth of it all. And often we get a sense there is more to it …..   More to experience ..…

So while this retreat will include ample instruction, the focus will be upon direct experience; finding and immersing ourselves in the deep inner peace, the regenerative power and the clarity of our own stillness. And the balance between doing and being...

This process will be enhanced by being in the wonderful, peaceful and majestic forests of the Upper Yarra Valley, by being supported by the staff and amenities of the Gawler Foundation’s Living Centre, and guided by Ian and Ruth Gawler.

For details CLICK HERE

Deep Natural Peace – a visual essay of a meditation retreat

Rest, relaxation, regeneration. The deep, natural peace that comes with retreating from our daily life, joining with like-minded people and journeying inwards. And yes, this visual essay harks back to 2016, and I did stumble upon it while searching something else. However, it is so evocative and such a good descriptor for the coming long weekend meditation retreat November 6 - 8; here it is

Deep Natural Peace





                 This is the meditation












Then there is the Yarra Valley.

Remarkable natural beauty complemented by years of being tended by loving gardeners.

Then there is the Yarra Valley.
Remarkable natural beauty complemented by years of being tended by loving gardeners.





                   This is the forest











So this week, a celebration in photographs and a few words of this annual highlight of our calendar, Meditation in the Forest, but first

Thought for the day

   We are what we think.
   All that we are arises with our thoughts.
   With our thoughts we make the world.


   Speak or act with an impure mind
   And sorrow will follow you 
   As the wheel follows the ox that draws the cart.


   Speak or act with a pure mind
   And happiness will follow you 
   As your shadow, unshakeable.

                 The Buddha

So enough words...

      We gather at the 
      Yarra Valley Living Centre…

 Some of the locals remained nonplussed…














      Others somewhat indifferent…










But we gathered and discussed the mind and its workings… and meditation of course...

       Entered into the purpose built
        meditation sanctuary

         To meditate together regularly
        throughout the day…











   Extended the sitting into walking…

         Some also walk the labyrinth
          with its curious way
          of aiding contemplation…

Some just pause a while, and watched the river flow; the Little Yarra River that is…














  

      While all experienced the delight
      of sharing with like minds…













Very comfortable accommodation, either doubles with ensuites or more economical shared spaces…











   

              And the food!


                    Just what people expected!

                                                 :)








     But of course,
    fresh herbs from the magical herb garden...












Then more free time to reflect,
to regenerate,
to experience the peace...

and watch the river flow by some more...











       Rounded off by the wisdom of a tree

                  












         With a great group of people!!!














                       Deep, natural peace

NEXT MEDITATION RETREAT

DEEP NATURAL PEACE
A unique opportunity to experience the deep natural peace and clarity of profound meditation

3 Day Meditation Immersion with Ian Gawler
NOVEMBER 2026 – Friday 6th to Saturday the 8th - Yarra Junction

These days, many people have had some introduction to meditation and the power of the mind. Soon comes the realisation of the extraordinary depth and breadth of it all. And often we get a sense there is more to it …..   More to experience ..…

So while this retreat will include ample instruction, the focus will be upon direct experience; finding and immersing ourselves in the deep inner peace, the regenerative power and the clarity of our own stillness.

This process will be enhanced by being in the wonderful, peaceful and majestic forests of the Upper Yarra Valley, by being supported by the staff and amenities of the Gawler Foundation’s Living Centre, and guided by Ian and Ruth Gawler.

For details CLICK HERE

 

Positive thinking – one prerequisite and two key techniques that get things done

How nice it would be if I could meditate more often. How nice it would be if I could eat better. Exercise more. Drink less. Be kinder...

I am definitely going to meditate more often. I am definitely going to eat better. Exercise more. Drink less. Be kinder...

Two paragraphs. Two simple demonstrations of the differences between aspiration and intention. 

Aspiration is the wish to do something. “Wouldn’t it be nice if I could...”

Intention is all about how much energy you are prepared to put into doing whatever you set your mind on. “I am definitely going to do all I can to accomplish... “

Positive thinking. We all value it and know its importance in every aspect of our lives. And for it to work for us, there is an essential pre-requisite, and then two powerful ways I know that explain how to “do it”, but first

Thought for the day

Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, 

The chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. 

Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, 

There is one elementary truth 

The ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: 

That the moment one definitely commits oneself, 

Then providence moves too.


All sorts of things occur to help one 

That would never otherwise have occurred. 

A whole stream of events issues from the decision, 

Raising in one's favour all manner 


Of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance 

Which no man could have dreamed would have come his way.

William Murray


NOTE This whole quote is often attributed to Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, however, it was actually written by Murray at the start of the 1961 Scottish Himalayan Expedition.

I have learned a deep respect for one of Goethe's couplets:


“Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. 

Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now.”

The crucial starting point – advancing from aspiration to intention

Aspiration. 

We say: “I hope it will happen.” “It would be nice it will happen.” “With a bit of luck it might happen...” Aspiration is an important starting point – it is where a good idea begins to formulate. However, if it remains at that level, whether it happens or not is probably more to do with chance than Positive Thinking. 
To get things done we need a strong intention.

My take on positive thinking is that it is all to do with understanding how our thinking mind works, and using it intelligently. 

The Oxford dictionary defines mind as being “the seat of perception, thinking, volition and feeling”. 

A very instructive definition. 

Now, we hear a good deal about perception, thinking and feeling. 

But then there is volition. 

Do not hear much about that! 

Volition is our will, our determination, our resolve – our intention. Without it nothing gets done. Without it we are left vulnerable to all sorts of outer and inner conflicts.

With our volition active, with our resolve in hand, there is clarity, there is commitment and confidence. With resolve there is the energy to follow through amidst all manner of challenges, obstacles, successes and failures; there is the energy to accomplish just about anything. Resolve. Volition. Intention.

Now the Positive Thinking techniques 

There are two useful ways of explaining how to put positive thinking into action. 

My own preference 

Three Principles of Positive Thinking:

1. Have a clear goal

2. Do whatever it takes (to accomplish that goal)

3. Choose to enjoy doing it.

The other that is often used in sporting and business circles is more instructive when it comes to resolve. 

This approach is based upon clarifying 4 steps:

The Four Steps of Positive Thinking: 

What, Why, How and How much? 

What do you intend to do? 

Why do you intend to do it? 

How do you intend to do it? 

How much do you want to do it?

This last point is the key to resolve. How much do you want to do something? Is this a casual business? If it happens it would be nice, or if not, no big deal? 

Or is this endeavour a matter of life and death? 

I must say over the years it has amazed me to observe the number of people who when faced with a life threatening condition like cancer remain casual. Others are more like how I was when acutely ill 50 years ago; my recovery was based on a life or death commitment. 

My resolve, my strong intention, was that during my recovery nothing was more important than getting well. Everything I did for several years had to satisfy the basic question - is this good for my health? My recovery? Of course that included having fun, but it also made it easy to fore-go many things, and to do stuff that was not always as “easy” as it may have seemed on the surface.

I have seen this same level of intention in business, in study, in sport, in music and in the intention to become a better person. A strong intention is the secret to positive thinking, to bringing into reality our good aspirations.

So how important are the things you aspire to? 

How strong is your resolve, your intention???

Finally, the Dalai Lama has something useful to say on this: 

“If an individual were to make conscious intention to live his or her life with a sense of purpose, live it in a good way, then the ripple effect of that really spreads. First, from the individual to the family, then to the community… and so on. This is how society gets changed and effected.

“When we talk about the transformation of society, the transformation really has to start from the individual, from inside to outwards.”

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